To Love Or Not To

Relationships are quite difficult to handle. Instead of being held onto a relation, it is better that we appreciate our singleness for the moment. I thought the other way round for the past few days, but after a very good talk with one of my close friends, i've understood better and i think that i am beginning to enjoy life after all. There are so many places to go to, so many people to meet, so many things to do. When you are committed to somebody, it might be a tad too little difficult for you to do all these things. In one way or the other you have to be in a relation later in a life. Why spoil all the fun as of now. One should look forward to living life at it's best and with the liberty that you have everything to look forward to. There should not be any constraints no matter what. Maybe you might regret later in life, asking - "What the hell was i doing when i should have been single?". So better not make yourself ask that question.

Maybe You Loved Too Much

Some people love so much that they expect something back for all the love they've got. Before i go on, i would ask each and everyone of you to let youreslves know that love is better given than received. It is better to love all, than to be loved by none. I hope you get the meaning. Everyone has their approach for life. And i warn you people - if you expect the expected, then you are bound to be disappointed. Expect the unexpected, it will help you from the initial shock. Some say that one does not need to let the other know that they love you. They make you feel so. It's true. But the point is - don't worry about what you get. Give your love as if it has no bounds. You get, then you are lucky. You don't, then better still. At least you've made yourself love someone. You get to be a better person. A much better person. And if you fret that someone ain't loving you - then you are wrong. Maybe it's only because you loved too much and you are expecting the same back. Love all, but don't make the world say, "Maybe you loved too much".

The Power of Failure

And then when u think all is right, looks like there is something missing from life. I've had my share of failures and success. But what each one has taught me is that there is always more you can do to improve yourself. Yesterday i went and apologized to a friend whom i had pestered for quite some time. And i actually felt good about it. I am the kind of person who gets angry very easily and after yesterday it seemed like i could actually be more of human than of the beast i am at the moment with most of the people around me. Life can take you places, show you things and even make you smile. But then again it can also teach you all at the same time. Maybe i am not the person who should be saying this at all. But then again, there could be no better person.